If you have considered going to a dating website to find yourself a wealthy man, consider this first:


Good looking men with money don’t usually have a hard time finding women to date.  As a result, they certainly aren’t going to need, much less pay someone to find a woman for them.

But there are also lots of millionaires who are busy making money and don’t have the time or inclination to go looking for a date. It is much easier to page through the profiles of dozens of beautiful women and pick out the ones they like than to hang out in bars hoping to find a woman.

If you’re lucky, you’ll meet one of those busy millionaires if you sign up at a “millionaires only” web dating service. If you’re unlucky, you’ll end up with the wealthy men who can’t get dates any other way.

Why can’t a millionaire easily get a date?

If a wealthy man can’t get a date it’s usually because there is something wrong with him, which is why he ends up at dating web site. But these online matchmakers also know something that no one likes to talk about…that a man with money will eventually get a woman no matter what his faults are, as long as she knows he has money. Which is why a dating website that advertises “millionaire bachelors” will always attract women, even if the guys are a bit flawed.

Be aware then, that a dating website catering to “millionaires” might have some or all of the following clientele:

  1. Men who have something physically, socially, or mentally wrong with them
  2. Married men
  3. Men who aren’t rich

Men who have physical, social or mental problems
Men who have trouble getting dates might have unappealing characteristics. You have to ask yourself, “How much am I willing to tolerate in order to be around wealth?” Are you willing to date men who are:

  • Physically unattractive
  • Handicapped or crippled
  • Hygienically unclean
  • Into extreme fetishes or compulsions
  • HIV positive or have herpes
  • Mean or controlling
  • 70, 80, or 90 (They don’t call it “Sugar Daddies” for nothing.)
  • Sick
  • Socially inept
  • Mentally unstable
  • Want submissive women

Lots of men looking for partners are married.

If you have no moral issues with dating married men and think it doesn’t matter as long as he is rich, you must be prepared to be a temporary toy in his life. The fun is over when:

  • He gets bored
  • His wife finds out
  • You become demanding
  • You get tired of spending most of your time alone
  • You frequently have to drop any plans you had for a last minute rendezvous with him
  • It’s not as exciting as you thought it would be

Life with a married man is not all fun and games.  He is often not available, but he expects you to be ready and waiting when he does have time for you.

He plans on spending the holidays with his family and may not have time to get away to see you, but don’t think of flying home to see your family.  He wants you available “just in case.” Many a lonely night will be spend waiting “just in case.”

If you don’t like it, just remember: his money, his rules.

You’re making a mistake if you believe he’s going to leave his wife for you.

Married men who secretly date other women rarely leave their wives. If they were going to do it, they would have done it already, so they wouldn’t have to sneak around. No matter how many times he tells you he loves you, and that you just have to be patient and give him some time, he isn’t going to leave his wife. You will discover too late that there will never be a good time for him to leave her.

He will have dozens of excuses:

  • Wait until the kids are out of the house
  • Wait until his finances are in order, so he doesn’t have to give her half of his fortune
  • Wait until his sick wife is feeling better

Wait, wait, wait. On and on the excuses will come.

Don’t start with a married man and you won’t have to regret ending it. Remember, the more of your youthful years you give to a married man, the fewer years remain to find someone that is yours.

Are you thinking that dating a rich man would be worth it, even if you eventually break up? You may have acquired a few expensive things, but you are older, have a reputation for dating married men and for being a gold digger, who is willing to put up with anything for money. I can’t imagine any scenario where that is a good idea.

Unless he is putting thousands of dollars in an account for you to get yourself out of town and start over somewhere else, it is not worth the risk. You certainly aren’t going to easily find another rich man. Rich men don’t usually like dating other rich men’s discarded goods, especially women with negative reputations.

He could be lying about his wealth

If you have the looks and the stomach for unusual men, you still have to deal with the fact that many of the men who sign up with dating websites and matchmaking services, may not be wealthy.

Remember the show, “Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire?” The lucky girl who won couldn’t stomach the guy for even their short “honeymoon.”  They slept in separate rooms and she annulled the marriage as soon as she got back to town.  Apparently his million wasn’t enough to entice her to stick around.

Even if the dating service claims to check out the background of the men who apply, IRS forms can be faked as well as bank statements and paychecks. In other words, there is no guarantee that he is who he says he is.

How much money makes a man “wealthy?”
Do you want a guy with a private jet who has homes in several countries, or will you settle for someone who jethas a great job, a house and vacations in wonderful places? Do you want your jewelry from Tiffany’s and Cartier or will diamonds from the local jeweler suffice?

For some women, a wealthy man is anyone who has a job and isn’t asking her to pay for dinner. For others, their idea of a wealthy man is someone on the Forbes list of the wealthiest men in the world.

If this is you, you are not likely to find him through a dating website. That man meets women all the time without help.

If you think you can tolerate anything as long as a man has money, a dating service advertising millionaire match-ups might be an option for you.

However, your looks are important. Photos are used as introductions. You won’t be picked out of a line up of eager faces because of your personality. Your looks are what you are selling.

If a dating service is not for you, you’ll need an alternative method of finding a millionaire. Looking for ideas on the internet about where to find wealthy men, you’ll discover such suggestions as meeting a rich man by borrowing a pedigree dog and walking it in wealthy neighborhoods. Silly idea.

After you spend a couple of days traversing up and down the street, the only thing you’re likely to get is arrested. Either the neighbors are going to report a strange woman canvassing the street day after day, or they’re going to assume you’re a hooker.

As much as you’d like to believe it, wealthy men are not hanging out on the street waiting to meet women. They don’t judge women by the dogs they walk, and they don’t like women who pretend to be something they are not.

So how do you meet decent rich men? The simple answer is: go where they are.

NEXT: What Do Rich Men Want?



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  1. marry a millioner men,you feel secure about tomorrow.but must devoted to him.serve love and care the real feeling of love

  2. i hate married men,everything stated here are for sure

  3. The problems listed are the same problems that women deal with trying to find a mate that is not rich. Personally, as a person that knows about hsv there are worst things to have to deal with. Men are men no matter what there wallets look like. I’m not rich, but I would love to meet a rich man because at least I know his issues are not his financials and he can’t blame bad behavior on it. Only snooty people do that to make themselves seem better than the rest of the world. Take away the money and their problems
    are just as obvious as everyone elses. I just want
    a man that we can love one another from the
    heart without financial strains as the excuse if
    things don’t work. I may not have the most
    lavished job in the world, but I work and take
    care of my disabled son and myself, by myself.
    It’s hard, but I sometimes I run into men who think because Im an independent I can take care of them. I don’t have it like that. I know some rich men look at women the same way, but Im not a gold digger. I just want to be safe, happy, comfortable, and loved.

  4. Rich man can be psychos and be mommy’s boys too. I married one. Are you willing to have so much mental stress that in the end you would feel like running? So I called quits. Get married to a decent earning guy who is less demanding.

  5. Every girl dreams of growing up to marry have the fairytale wedding the wonderful husband with money nice house nice car an of course the money an the wonderful kids but in reality it dose not work like that to marry for money is wrong a man that loved me an showed it would be enough anything els would be a bonus I’ve been a single Perent of a wonderful son all his life I don’t have the best but in my eyes I have it all

    • Hmmm deborah I would like to know more about you if you don’t I would like you and I to know each other much better,

  6. Hmmmm….Whatever happened to falling in love with a person regardless of their financial status? Very good things to read, but quite sad at the same time. Best wishes to those who crave that lifestyle versus the “man behind the money” (I know not all women are that way – but more so than less).

  7. Millions of people pass us by…, thousands are watching us…, hundreds of them are trying to look us in the eye…, and dozens want to look info our souls…, but very few have little chance to get info our heart. Good luck.

  8. peace,
    joy, someone to trust and true riches

    • nice thoughts

  9. I met a rich guy and the sad part is I was tipsy and am single we spoke and later had sex,I regret the whole thing cause it was my first time sleeping with a guy in first day of meeting. Do I call him to apologise or just leave it?

    • You have already made your mistake and established what kind of girl you are. Calling him and apologizing will not change anything for him or you. You have given away the thing he wanted most and satisfied his desire. Why would he need to call you again unless it is for sex? You have no relationship. You are not friends. Sex is what connects you now. Do not contact him. Do not apologize. Forget regret and learn from this mistake. Then do it differently the next time. And remember, being tipsy is no excuse for bad judgement. Getting tipsy in the first place is bad judgement. Always be in control of your mind and your body. Good luck to you in finding a great partner.

  10. Thank u for the info……i will definetely use it!

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